Lesson 7: "A Pure Motive But Wrong Method" Genesis 15:1-16:16
"Abram agreed to what Sarai said…" Genesis 16:2
A serious problem
From a human perspective, Abram faced a big problem. His encounter with God only emphasized the problem. It's interesting what Abram asks about first (15:8).
It was a reasonable question, and God responded by using a ceremony common to the time. Either party who violated the contract would be subject to the animals' fate: death.
A wrong method
It has been about 10 years since Abram first came to Canaan, longer than that since God first called Abram in Ur. So who came up with a suggestion? Why?
True, archaeologists tell us that surrogate mothers were a custom of day. Also, Sarai used religious reasoning (16:1-2).
At this point, Abram makes four major mistakes.
A wrong premise - Abram assumed Sarai's reasoning was valid
Selfish motives - were Abram and Sarai following Phil. 2:3,4?
Prayerlessness - no indication that they consulted God first (recall 14:22,23)
Regression - Abram followed the old ways; right motive, wrong method
Serious repercussions
This mistake would have a lasting impact that continues to this day. 3 things happened immediately, though.
Pride and arrogance - Hagar grew proud and arrogant (16:4) See Prov. 30:21-23
Bitterness - Sarai lashes out at Abram (16:5) Is that human nature? We take a step without God's blessing, and instead of blaming ourselves, we attack each other
Family tension - With almost unbearable tension in his household, Abram doesn't even take responsibility for his actions (16:6)
Sovereign intervention
In spite of Abram and Sarai's actions, God showed mercy to Hagar.
However, there were still consequences.
Stopping to first ask 'What does God want me to do?' can be scary, because God might actually tell us!
5 Principles
#1) We must guard against our human tendency to take matters into our own hands
#2)
We must be cautious about making quick decisions and snap judgements without thinking
#3)
We must remember that even those closest to us can lead us astray
#4)
We must be alert to subtle influences from our former lifestyle
#5)
We must always select methods that are in harmony with the principles of Scripture