David
– Seeking God Faithfully
Lesson 9: "A Wounded Ego" I Samuel 25
"David said to his men, ‘Put on your swords!’" I Samuel 25: 13
Details of the Story
Nabal – a "fool", and a "dog"
Shepherd to Shepherd
Nabal’s response to David’s request – An insult?
David’s response – Almost made a mistake he would’ve regretted forever
Abigail prevented David from making a big mistake
5 Principles
#1)
Failures often follow victories – I Cor. 10:12
#2)
A wounded ego is a dangerous motivator – James 1:19
#3)
Decisions made in anger can be disastrous – Ephesians 4:26-27
#4)
Quick-tempered responses are dangerous – I Tim. 3:1-10; Titus 1:7
#5)
It’s God’s prerogative to take revenge – Romans 12:17-21
How to Handle Anger in Yourself
Try not to be caught off guard
Insecurity breeds quick tempers
Wait until you have regained control
Try to not perceive difficult situations as a personal attack
Don’t try to get even
How to Handle Anger in Others
Do not counter anger with anger – Prov. 15:1
Attempt to understand the source of the anger – Prov. 16:24
Try not to take what is said personally
You may not be the primary source of frustration – Prov. 25:11
For next week, read I Samuel 27 - 30